Remembering Jason

I hope everyone will take some time to add a thought or message to Jason's family or even leave something that went unsaid to Jason that you wish you could have said. I hope this to be a great support site for family and friends who will always remember what a great guy Jason is.
I know there are many people who took pictures and video at the services. Feel free to send copies or links to me at tolmanma@gmail.com.

Friday, January 9, 2009

From Mike

Kelly, my name is Mike Chappell and I wanted to pass on my deepest sympathy for your loss. I knew Jason very well during the first half of his life and miss him very much. I used to run around the streets of Mesa with Jeremy, Ben, Jason, and Cameron. My two brothers, Tim and Chris, and the Tolman boys definitely left our mark on the Southern and Val Vista area. Most of my childhood memories were with this group of little rascals. Jeremy and Tim were always the older ones with the girls as friends and Cameron and Chris were the little guys running around doing our biddings. Ha! =) We definitely got into our fair share of mischief. I think we were all such good friends back then because of the bond between two sisters – Paula and my mom, Kathe. It is really quite amazing to look at these two women and look at all the things they have been through together… everything from marriage, children, mother’s death, dual family vacations, divorce, a burned house, brother’s death, moving huge distances, father’s death, and now a son’s & nephew’s death. I think I am telling you this because there is great value in the example of these two women--the bond of two sisters that does not break. Other than that I just wanted to say that there are generations of family and history you have joined through meeting and loving Jason. And there will be generations of family and legacy that yours and Jason’s kids will build. Family is Forever.
My love,
Mike

1 comment:

Misty Selvidge said...

Jason and Kelly we love you! I am Mike's sister, cousin of Jason. I remember Jason and how cute he was as a kid and always had a caring heart. As an adult all the kids loved playing with Jason! Kara and I would always watch out for all our brothers and we love them dearly!!
I send my deepest sympathy to Kelly and her kids and all the Tolmans. I am glad I got to spend this week with all of you. It was fun and healing to get together and hear stories of Jason. His viewing and funeral was so nice! I'm sure Jason was there with us all and was very pleased! Kelly-I was a single Mom for a couple of years and yes it will be busy and hard but if you stay close to the Lord he will carry you! The Lord has a soft spot in his heart for single Mom's! I can't wait to go through the temple with you and see you and Jason sealed with all your children. I know he is up in heaven with your unborn child right now telling him/her to watch out for you! I am here for you!Eric, Cami, Cassie, Carli, and I love you all so much. All the Tolmans are like my bros and sister since my siblings are in UT, and VA. May all our memories of Jason comfort us and heal us through this emotional time in our lives.
Love always, Misty Selvidge(Chappell)